Believe it or not, your success doesn't need to come at the sacrifice of your wellbeing.
I FACILITATE TRANSFORMATIVE EMPOWERMENT COACHING TO TEACH YOU HOW TO CREATE A LIFE YOU DON’T NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM!
Is your ambition bringing you success, but also draining you? From the outside it might look like you’re doing amazingly, but does it feel amazing? Your success doesn’t have to come at the cost of your mental or emotional health, there is another way & you’re more than ready for it!
Hi wonderful human, I’m Nicky
Empowerment Coach & expert on dissolving what’s holding women back from living life on their terms.
You didn’t arrive here on earth to work yourself into the ground, constantly striving to prove yourself & not feeling like you’re getting any closer to the elusive utopia of happiness that you thought was to be found at a stage in your career, meeting your partner, starting a family or achieving a certain level of wealth.
I’m passionate about supporting women who are exhausted by their own ambition to create a life they don’t need to take a break from, to confidently create their life on their terms, guilt free!
Throughout my life I discovered…
THAT THE FEELINGS OF HAPPINESS, PEACE & TRUE FULFILMENT, THAT I SPENT DECADES STRIVING FOR, WEREN’T IN THE THINGS I’D BEEN CHASING OUTSIDE OF ME!
I ticked all the boxes:
- Great husband
- Lovely house
- Senior job with great benefits and salary
- Good friends
- Overseas holidays
- Nice car
- Fulfilled my childhood dream of owning my own horses & having them at home
Yet I still wasn’t happy or at peace within myself and I didn’t know why. I felt lost, confused & unsure what to do next.
It was starting to dawn on me that the route to feel good consistently wasn’t in the things I’d been coveting. If it wasn’t outside of me, then the only other place left to look was inside of me.
When I started on the journey to leave behind never feeling like I was doing enough, that somehow I wasn’t good enough, I didn’t know where it would lead, but something in me said ‘This can’t be it, this can’t be all there is!’
I’m pleased to tell you I was right, it wasn’t all there was & it felt like the world was starting to open up for me. Just by choosing to follow that thought, that I wasn’t willing to accept that life always felt like such a struggle, changed things in ways that I couldn’t have imagined!
MY MISSION
It’s my mission to empower women who are exhausted by their own ambition to create a life they don’t need to take a break from, to confidently create their life on their terms, guilt free!
Let me show you how to transform your drive and ambition into a force for creating a life that’s authentic and fulfilling, instead of the endless pursuit of external success.
I created everything I thought I wanted by my mid 30s and found that I wasn’t happy, healthy or fulfilled.
I was convinced that if I could make everything around me how I wanted it to be, then I’d finally be happy & be able to relax. I went to extremes too, I left my 15 year corporate career that was draining the life out of me, & moved 1200km to the South of France, with little more than holiday French!
During that decade of living in France I discovered that it doesn’t matter where I am, who I’m with, how much money I have, or how many things I amass; feeling happy, at peace & fulfilled comes from inside of me, not from my circumstances.
Having tried so hard to create the perfect life & found that I didn’t fundamentally feel any different, I set to work learning what was happening in my inner world. I discovered what was causing me to feel inadequate, on edge & like life could cave in on me at any moment & by addressing those deeply buried aspects of my mind, I finally found the long coveted feelings of happiness, peace & fulfilment!
They were within me all along! For decades I’d been convinced I had to strive for success, to get to a place where I’d achieved enough to be able to relax. Looking back it feels exhausting even thinking about that old life!
Once you discover personal peace & know that it’s truly safe to be you, everything starts to slot into place like never before. I knew I couldn’t keep it to myself, I knew too many women feel the way I felt for so long & just how unnecessarily exhausting it is.
If you want life to be less hassle, if you want to stop over committing to everything & everyone, without feeling the heaviness of guilt on your shoulders, then I’ll teach you how!
I absolutely get it, you want to be able to relax & switch off, without worrying that everything will fall apart.
You want to live life where you’re not looking over your shoulder, waiting for something bad to happen. I believe everyone deserves that! Recognising how much this work is needed in the world is what spurred me into action to create this business, to support women like you to drop striving & start thriving.
My Values
Peace – How peaceful you feel in your body & mind when you lay your head on your pillow at night is the true definition of a successful life. We may have once believed otherwise, but when you truly know yourself, you know this is central to you being happy & fulfilled.
Growth – We’re designed to grow & transcend the difficult experiences we encountered growing up. You learnt to protect yourself then, but as an adult it holds you back. When you transcend your past, you’re free from it & incredible things become possible, vaster than you may previously have considered.
Balance – Life isn’t meant to be lived at full pace all of the time. When you transcend the false belief that resting is lazy, you’ll allow yourself the space you need & discover the joy in balancing what you really want with those commitments you feel called to do. When you give yourself permission to slow down, your energy ignites you.
It's your choice
BECOMING EMPOWERED STARTS HERE!
Do something today that your future self will thank you for!
