Becoming
become the rider you've always wanter to be!
A group coaching program that supports you to become the rider you’ve always wanted to be!
Warning: This program is not for you if…
- You’re not interested in doing deep work to see what’s holding you back.
- You don’t want to understand what’s really driving your current behaviour.
- You don’t value personal growth.
- You want a quick fix & aren’t willing to do the inner work to experience the transformation.
- You think that creating a robust mindset is for ‘weak’ riders.
- When things go wrong you blame your horse first, before considering your own influence on the situation.
- You want to improve as a rider only to show others how good you are.
But you’re in the right place if you want...
- To change your horsey life for the better!
- To change how you experience your time with your horse.
- To do the things that you’ve only dreamed of until now!
- To go deep on inner work to create the changes you desire.
- To resolve something that happened in the past that has been holding you back from doing what you’d really love to do.
- A toolkit that really works, to support you to make the changes you want in your riding life
- To be supported by someone who really cares about you, your horse & your progress.
- To experience what could be possible for you in your riding.
- To create the equestrian life that you truly desire!
Can you imagine what it would be like when...
- You can confidently do anything that you want to with your horse.
- Being able to have your horse & ride him/her well.
- Leave baggage from your riding past behind, no longer hampered by what went before.
- You sleep soundly the night before a competition, confident in whatever unfolds.
- You’re excited to have fun with your horse every day.
- You’re happy to just give things a go, without fearing ‘what if...’
- You’re having so much fun with your horse that you lose all track of time.
- When someone suggests doing something different & exciting you automatically say yes!

I know what you’re thinking...
Things just don’t come easily for you – your horse is tricky, you struggle & have to manage things in a particular way for both of you, before you can even think about riding or having a nice day together.
You’ve read the books, you’ve tried exercises from YouTube tutorials, you’ve tried affirmations, sought advice from friends & those more experienced than you & it just hasn’t worked.
This isn’t your fault, things that worked for others didn’t work for me either, that doesn’t make us wrong, it just means we need something different.
I get it. I really, really do.
I used to be where you are right now...
I used to dream about having fun with my horse, for it to be easy, maybe do some competing.
Everything felt hard though, my horse was stressy, to ride & to handle, let alone to take anywhere new!
If I even thought about doing anything competitive I was gripped with nerves & I ‘knew’ that I wasn’t good enough.
Then one day I quietly decided that I wanted to compete, more than I’d allowed myself to think about before. I watched others do it & although I felt that it was easier for them than it would be for me, there was a part of me that wanted to give it a go anyway.
Once I was honest with myself I took steps towards starting competing. It was scary but the initial decision was the hardest bit. That was a number of years ago & now competing is a huge part of my life!
It wasn’t a linear process of going from being a nervous rider to being so assured, but once I nailed what was holding me back there was no stopping me. I went from feeling sick at the thought of jumping 85cm at home to competing at 1m15 confidently & jumping far bigger in training.
‘It’s not about the size of the fences’ my coach would always tell me, once I got my mind onside I finally understood what she meant – until then I felt like it was easy for her to say that, when she was regularly jumping 1m45!
It’s not just about competing either, it’s about how I feel in myself as a horse person, in fact as a person in general! Before, I viewed myself as someone who couldn’t do what she wanted to with her horse, in the way that others did. By changing my mindset around my horsey life I’ve changed my mindset about my life in general & as a result everything is so much easier.
If I want to do something with my horse then I will, because I want to & without worry of what others might think or say. I trust my judgement about what’s right for us & I do so with a confidence & a surety that I didn’t know was possible, I thought I was destined to be someone who had horses & didn’t do much with them, it wasn’t what I wanted but it was what I thought I was destined for.
Once I decided not to settle for that everything changed & I hardly recognise that version of me now.
Whatever you’re settling for right now absolutely doesn’t need to be your limit. It was possible for me to change my reality it’s 100% possible for you too!

Becoming
A 6 week group coaching program that supports you to become the rider you’ve always wanted to be.
During the program you’ll understand what’s been holding you back until now. We’ll identify & resolve those issues that have been hanging around, you’ll decide what you really want, so you can get clear & create a plan to make it happen!
You’ll have weekly live online coaching sessions, with live Q&A calls & a dedicated Facebook group, so that you’re supported the whole way, to achieve exactly what you want.
BECOMING is for riders who want to get more from their time with their horse, whether that’s competing or not. Strengthening your bond with your horse has a profound impact on your partnership. This matters because equestrianism can be expensive & if you’re not enjoying your time together, then it can be a thankless pastime.
There are limited spaces on this group coaching program, so don’t hang around!
Whatever has gone before we will address, which is what makes it possible for you to have incredible breakthroughs like you’ve never experienced before!
The areas that we’ll cover in the BECOMING group coaching program are...
The Real Reflection Mirror
- We will go deep on what’s gone before, that’s influencing your present.
- This is a powerful look at what drives you, which reveals your true motivations. You’ll understand yourself like never before.
The Deep Desire Blueprint
- We will explore what you really want in your equestrian life (without limits) & why.
- We’ll look at what drives you & how that shows up in your results.
Letting Go!
- Release what’s been holding you back from being the rider you truly desire.
A New You!
- Feel the freedom of releasing what’s been holding you back.
- No longer hampered by the limitations of your mind, what becomes possible now?
Design Your Future
- Create the future that you’ve always wanted.
- Feel into what feels possible now as you step into your transformation.
Limitless Possibilities
- Expand the vision of the life you want to create, no holds barred!



And you also get this awesome bonus!
To support you better on your journey to become the rider & horse person that you’ve always wanted to be, when you pay in full there is a fabulous bonus!
- My online masterclass that teaches you all about how the mind works.
- Over 1.5 hours of video content that contains proven tools that I use with my 1-to-1 clients.
- You’ll have access to this Masterclass for 12 months.
- It has rave reviews from people who have completed it - the difference that it’s made to their riding has been incredible!
MEET YOUR MENTOR
Hi! I’m Nicky, your Mindset Transformation Coach.
I help amateur riders who want to progress in their riding & horsey life, so they can access all possibilities available to them through transforming their mindset.
I went from living a wholly underwhelming horsey life, where I was too nervous & self conscious to do anything, to living my absolute best life, where I’m having the most fun with my amazing mare Kiki. We event, show jump, do dressage, as well as plenty of hacking, fun rides & generally enjoying ourselves.
Kiki is talented & beautiful & an old version of me would have thought that she was too good for me!
I got past my demons to be able to truly live my best horsey life & I’m passionate about helping you to do the same. Horses are incredible, yet owning them can be an expensive way to be miserable. I’ll support you to bring joy to your horsey life.
When I’m not riding or coaching clients, I can be found with our dogs & cats, or my other horses. I have a very understanding husband who thankfully embraces the animal madness!
Don’t wait for ‘the right time’ to enjoy your horsey time!
Have more fun than you ever imagined, making plans & memories with your horse that will last a lifetime.
Create what you truly want in your horsey life, no longer held back by doubts, worries or not feeling good enough. Feel confident & assured in making plans, knowing that it’s all possible.
You could stay stuck, wishing things were different & be in the same place 6 months from now, when it will be an even bigger deal to move past what’s holding you back.
OR you could say yes to BECOMING & go from feeling inadequate & scared of being judged, to feeling calm, assured & excited to get cracking with the horsey plans you’ve always wanted to make!
Your next best step is calling you, are you willing to take it? Your horse will thank you for it.
What you get in this Group Program...
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A weekly coaching session for the duration of the 6 week program £1,800
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Live 90 minute Q&A calls twice during the program £799
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A dedicated Facebook group for the duration of the program, get your questions answered in between Q&A calls £799
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A bespoke guided visualisation audio track £99
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Pay in full bonus - 12 month access to my online Masterclass, Supercharge Your Riding £149
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All calls will be recorded in the event that you’re unable to be there live (& for you to watch back again & again) £priceless!
THE TOTAL VALUE OF THIS PACKAGE IS £3,646
It’s currently available for a limited time at a drastically reduced price
(it will not stay at this price after this program)
PAY IN EASY
INSTALMENTS
Pay only £397 to get access, and then 2 monthly payments of £397
Do you want the VIP Experience?
If you want to have more from me by way of 1-to-1 bespoke support, you can upgrade to the VIP experience.
You will get the 6 week group coaching program PLUS…
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A 60 minute 1-to-1 targeted coaching session with me. £???
Note: It's not possible to book a standalone coaching session with me outside of this VIP offer.
UPGRADE TO VIP
PAY IN EASY
INSTALMENTS
Pay only £597 to get access, and then 2 monthly payments of £597
Not sure if BECOMING is right for you? Still have questions?
Book a FREE clarification call with me.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
- Is it really possible for me to feel confident, even though I’ve always struggled with nerves? Yes it is!
- Can I get past the bad experience that I had years ago that always seems to raise its head whenever I experience a similar situation? Yes you can!
- Can I get past the bad experience that I had years ago that always seems to raise its head whenever I experience a similar situation? Yes you can!
- I’m an anxious rider & I always have been, how is it possible that I can become confident? I will work with you to resolve those anxieties & you’ll feel more assured than you ever thought possible!
- Why is mindset so critical to riding success? It’s the thing that can make the biggest difference & it’s hugely underestimated. When you are using your mind intentionally (which I teach you to do) the sky’s the limit!
Not quite ready for BECOMING but still want to make big steps towards overcoming those gremlins in your head that are holding you back?
The Supercharge Your Riding Masterclass
An online course for you to learn how to take charge of your mindset & become the rider you want to be!